Monday, May 6, 2013

Do you put up a flag?  What are the reasons you would?

Sunday, June 5, 2011

A POEM WORTH READING

A POEM WORTH READING
(Author Unknown)
He was getting
old and paunchy
And his hair was falling fast,
And he sat around the Legion,
Telling stories of the past.

Of a war that he once fought in
And the deeds that he had done,
In his exploits with his buddies;
They were heroes, every one.

And tho' sometimes to his neighbors
His tales became a joke,
All his buddies listened quietly
For they knew whereof he spoke.

But we'll hear his tales no longer,
For old Bob has passed away,
And the world's a little poorer
For a Soldier died today.

He won't be mourned by many,
Just his children and his wife.
For he lived an ordinary,
Very quiet sort of life.

He held a job and raised a family,
Going quietly on his way;
And the world won't note his passing,
'Tho a Soldier died today.

When politicians leave this earth,
Their bodies lie in state,
While thousands note their passing,
And proclaim that they were great.

Papers tell of their life stories
From the time that they were young
But the passing of a Soldier
Goes unnoticed and unsung.

Is the greatest contribution
To the welfare of our land,
Someone who breaks his promise
And cons his fellow man?

Or the ordinary fellow
Who in times of war and strife,
Goes off to serve his country
And offers up his life?

The politician's stipend
And the style in which he lives,
Are often disproportionate,
To the service that he gives.

While the ordinary Soldier,
Who offered up his all,
Is paid off with a medal
And perhaps a pension small.

It is not the politicians
With their compromise and ploys,
Who won for us the freedom
That our country now enjoys.

Should you find yourself in danger,
With your enemies at hand,
Would you really want some cop-out,
With his ever waffling stand?

Or would you want a Soldier--
His home, his country, his kin,
Just a common Soldier,
Who would fight until the end?

He was just a common Soldier,
And his ranks are growing thin,
But his presence should remind us
We may need his like again.

For when countries are in conflict,
We find the Soldier's part
Is to clean up all the troubles
That the politicians start.

If we cannot do him honor
While he's here to hear the praise,
Then at least let's give him homage
At the ending of his days.

Perhaps just a simple headline
In the paper that might say:
"OUR COUNTRY IS IN MOURNING,
A SOLDIER DIED TODAY."

Monday, May 30, 2011

What is an American?

I received this in an email and although the preface for which it was written is disturbing the explanation is awesome. Please read to the end.

Written by an Australian Dentist

To Kill an American
You probably missed this in the rush of news, but there was actually a report that someone in Pakistan had published in a newspaper, an offer of a reward to anyone who killed an American--any American.

So an Australian dentist wrote an editorial the following day to let everyone know what an American is ... So they would know when they found one. (Good one, mate!!!!)

'An American is English, or French, or Italian, Irish, German, Spanish , Polish, Russian or Greek. An American may also be Canadian, Mexican, African, Indian, Chinese, Japanese, Korean, Australian, Iranian, Asian, or Arab, or Pakistani or Afghan.

An American may also be a Comanche, Cherokee, Osage, Blackfoot, Navajo, Apache, Seminole or one of the many other tribes known as native Americans.

An American is Christian, or he could be Jewish, or Buddhist, or Muslim. In fact, there are more Muslims in America than in Afghanistan. The only difference is that in America they are free to worship as each of them chooses.

An American is also free to believe in no religion.. For that he will answer only to God, not to the government, or to armed thugs claiming to speak for the government and for God.


An American lives in the most prosperous land in the history of the world.

The root of that prosperity can be found in the Declaration of Independence, which recognizes the God given right of each person to the pursuit of happiness.

An American is generous. Americans have helped out just about every other nation in the world in their time of need, never asking a thing in return.


When Afghanistan was over-run by the Soviet army 20 years ago, Americans came with arms and supplies to enable the people to win back their country!


As of the morning of September 11, Americans had given more than any other nation to the poor in Afghanistan...

The national symbol of America, The Statue of Liberty, welcomes your tired and your poor, the wretched refuse of your teeming shores, the homeless, tempest tossed. These in fact are the people who built America.


Some of them were working in the Twin Towers the morning of September 11, 2001, earning a better life for their families. It's been told that the World Trade Center victims were from at least 30 different countries, cultures, and first languages, including those that aided and abetted the terrorists.

So you can try to kill an American if you must. Hitler did. So did General Tojo, and Stalin, and Mao Tse-Tung, and other blood-thirsty tyrants in the world.. But, in doing so, you would just be killing yourself. Because Americans are not a particular people from a particular place. They are the embodiment of the human spirit of freedom. Everyone who holds to that spirit, everywhere, is an American.

On this Memorial Day remember the reasons you are enjoying your picnic, hike, and other vacation activities. We have built this great nation on the backs of many soldiers fighting from the time this nation stood alone. Freedom is never free. Thank a soldier and remember them always in your prayers.

Friday, May 27, 2011

Going away gift?


I have been asked.... what do you get a deploying soldier as a "going away" gift. We have thought up a few. The 1st time my husband left we traced our hands on a pillow case with fabric paint. This time I think we are just going to do letters. As you have family dinners, parties, etc., have a notebook that everyone attending can write a letter of encouragement in. I know this will be of great comfort to my husband as he is so far away from home. What are your ideas?

Great Website

I just wanted to share a great website that has TONS of articles about your deploying soldier. http://www.ehow.com/how_5248994_survive-soldiers-deployment.html

Monday, May 16, 2011

What to do to keep your soldier connected

I would love some suggestions on this matter. As I attended the yellow ribbon event put on by the FACs (family assistance centers), we learned we need to set boundaries before our soldier leaves. I have older kids so we will all be able to write letters. Once a week? These will be very important because there might not be too much technology left when they arrive. Any suggestions? I would love any.....

Friday, April 29, 2011

Family Time

Spending time together as a family whether it is through family dinners, working, or vacations, is a very important thing to remember as your soldier gets ready to deploy. My husband's unit has an amazing commander that values the family. He has encouraged us as families, no matter what form, to spend some special time together before they deploy. We are getting ready for a week-long family vacation to Hawaii. It will be our kids' first time flying. We have arranged for, hopefully, everything that is needed. Sunscreen, swimsuits, animals left home. We have been planning this trip since December. We booked it in January. It never ceases to amaze me at how fast time flies. We are all very excited for our family vacation to come but that date arriving also means that another not so fun date is almost here. I have had a little taste of my husband being gone since he left in November for training in Oklahoma. He was able to come home for 9 days during Christmas. He came home the 1st week of April just to leave 2 days later to join his unit for their annual summer camp which lasted 3 weeks. We now have him home for about a month and already a week is gone. We all know how vacations fly by so there will be another week. My son was able to complete his Eagle Scout requirements and will have his court of honor along with extended family party and pictures the next week. And pretty soon, that day has arrived. The day when my husband will be serving our country. I am so very proud of him. I know his unit and the guys he will be serving with are amazing. It still is such a scary thing but most of all the unknown. If I could plan everything out I would be set. The unknown is always scary. When I attended the Military Child training they called it the "new normal". So we will enjoy this time we have with our dad and husband and then get ready for the coming all too quick "new normal". As you stop at the end of your day today, say a little prayer for all the soldiers and for their families. We could use all the help we can get. Thank you for your support!